Principal's Reflection
Yesterday we celebrated ‘Mothers’ Day’ which is a fantastic recognition of the role wonderful women play in all of our lives. I hope every Mum, Grandmother, Aunt or ‘other’, had a wonderful day. We should celebrate good women in our lives. The images and news we have all watched about the awful incidents of gender-based violence in Australia have been awful. Those things stand in such stark contrast to the celebration of ‘Mothers’ Day’. The vast majority of people and the vast majority of men would never dream of causing harm to someone they love. What part do most of us then play in this? At the very least, awareness. Blokes, mostly, need to be able to challenge their mates when stories come up about treating women with anything less than the utmost respect. Girls need awareness. They need to never buy into the nonsense that would justify poor behaviour from a bloke because, ‘my girlfriend / partner / spouse, made me mad!’ No one else is responsible for my emotional responses other than me! Girls need to run a thousand miles from a boy who would treat them with anything less than respect. Girls need to be ‘aware’ that it is not their job to ‘change’ a boy.
At Shalom, we will do a couple of things in the next few weeks to help raise awareness among our young people about how important it is to try and end the scourge of domestic and partner violence. I am hoping we will have a big contingent of students and families at the ‘Walk for Awareness’ event at Bywash Park (beside the B’ball stadium) ready for a 7.30am start next Friday May 24. House Deans will be asking students to sign up for this. The College will provide transport back to school for students who require this. We will also participate in the ‘Red Shoes’ project. This initiative involves students painting shoes red in an effort to remind them and others of the lives lost in Australia through Domestic Violence. I hope every family will support this awareness by discussing the topic at home and always modelling respectful relationships. 34 women have lost their lives in Australia already this year through partner violence. If this is going to change, we all have a part to play.Learner Conferences are scheduled for next Tuesday (21 May) afternoon / evening for Year 9-12. I love seeing lots of parents, with their daughter or son, attending these nights. At the very least, it is a very clear statement to your child about how seriously you take their education. The effectiveness of schooling is directly proportional to how closely and well parents and teachers cooperate. Thank you to all of those who take part.
Mr Dan McMahon
Principal
mcmahond@shalomcollege.com

